Hi there!
Been like centuries I haven't posted anything here. Been a difficult days without writing. Yes, I'm back now! After praying long time for this blog I've finally made it today, that this blog will be solely presented for the name of our glorious God, Jesus Christ. Most of the times when I pray, I can feel what God wants me to know, some for myself and some for others. Hopefully my comeback will be such a great blessing for His name.
As it is stated in the title, our society has been flooded up with this mental outbreak.
ASSUMPTION,
where all screw-ups are from.
I have heard once in my life someone said "ASSUMPTION is the lowest type of knowledge".
It is damaging and destructive.
It is damaging and destructive.
I realize that when we assume and keep it in our mind, it roots deep. It kills the image of others and blocks the love God wants us to show. So please, never assume and say a YES to one of these, because it will also sign your heart up for pain. We are all human, a wretch let's say, with all baggage and weaknesses, I know right. But when it comes to someone, our beloved ones, why don't we just ask them the truth? Why do we let our mind brawl about this uncertain? Don't misunderstood them with our own way of thinking and silently hate & judge them. So before we "assume", try this crazy easy method called "asking".
How easy it is for us to create such an equation, that when someone is grumpy means s/he is bad, that when someone speaks a little louder means s/he's being too frontal and on and on. We're trapped in our own "frivolous thinking". How easy it is to be totally wrong about people, to see one tiny part of them and confuse it for the whole.
Assumption breaks our relationship. Some may cut relationship right away or one-sidedly without any further effort of explanation and refusing to spare time of reconciliation. So sad, it is. So sad knowing that how we forget all of those beautiful things just because one bad thing happens. We throw things away when it is broken, replace it with the new one & don't even bother to fix it anyway.
One thing we may know, we don't even have an inch idea what is going on in someone else's life. Your shoes won't fit in any of them, either will theirs.
"You can't open up the story of someone's life and just go to page 823 and think you know her."
Gossips - (lost) women like gossips. They make the story goes on and on & it feels so good knowing that others are not as "good" as her. Well, ladies, "flowers don't compete with other flowers. It just blooms" and talk bad about others won't make you look nice either, okay? So stop labeling others.
I've been set free realizing that God has changed me this far. I committed not to live at the striking words of nonsense which I never even sensed it myself. People make mistakes, we all make mistakes. And it's no matter where we've been & what we've done, it is what we are going to become that matters the most. As I grew up, I realize that the more we assume, it just a little that we know.
I know how it hurts to be misunderstood, to be refused in explanation, and it is to be judged. Most of us don't realize how more difficult it is to live in hatred rather than it is in love. I wonder how easy someone believe & being influenced by the story they don't even experience themselves. They hate the people whom they don't deal with. They start to comment and underestimate as if they have the most everything in this world. Seriously guys, I'm sad. And as I know how it feels, I learn the hard way not to judge and label people, and most importantly to love them.
I know how it hurts to be misunderstood, to be refused in explanation, and it is to be judged. Most of us don't realize how more difficult it is to live in hatred rather than it is in love. I wonder how easy someone believe & being influenced by the story they don't even experience themselves. They hate the people whom they don't deal with. They start to comment and underestimate as if they have the most everything in this world. Seriously guys, I'm sad. And as I know how it feels, I learn the hard way not to judge and label people, and most importantly to love them.
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I'm stronger because I had to be,
I'm smarter because of my mistakes,
happier because of the sadness I've known,
and now wiser because I learned.
"3 For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, 4 and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths."
Got this verse (in 2 Timothy 4) when I pray about this topic. Some people rule the words that suit their own passions and refuse learning the truth, then start to live in the myth they desire to believe in. Well, it is a sad fact knowing that some really love listening to lies when actually they know about the truth.
Learn not to be the one. Always learn to seek and follow the truth, cause that's what God wants us to do.
"5 having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. 6 For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, 7 always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth."Are we like the weak woman mentioned up there? Who's having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power, burdened with sins & always want to be taught but never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth? Let us all make it the pondering of our heart. Be truthful and fruitful. Be that kind of woman. Pray to God for such power to be the one.
Never hate, just LOVE.
