Have you ever been in a relationship before? In a friendship or any other companionship?
Don't you know there are several phases in relationship which sometimes missed in our mind?
For me, building a relationship has stages. It is more likely to be rooms in a house, there are terrace, living room, family room and the most intimate place, bedroom. It is better for us to realize in which spot that's proper for people to be situated. For strangers, I'd rather to share my life in terrace, which not a lot to tell, not a lot to expect; minimum interaction. That's not about being mean but the boundary. In some cases, it's essential too for you to consider who's allowed to borrow your stuffs, read your notes or whom you can share your meals. It's also important for ladies to set rules to men who approach them. Don't provide too much hopes for the sake of compliments or any negatives. Besides, the way you speak, what you share, how you dress to certain occasion, they all are determined your hidden purpose that's possibly can be detected. So, be polite! Act, think and chat suitably. Because you won't ever know who exactly you're now facing.
It's about you, yourself, the one who knows best to situate every person who comes to your life. Be wise :)
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